Share On lineapp Share On lineapp. Often same-sex sexual contact between men will take a form of hyper-masculinity and joking around. Who we have sex with, how we like our sex and who we fantasise about when the lights are off are frequently mysteries even to those closest to us. Like passion itself, your sexual predilection may seem overpowering — until it passes and something else takes your fancy. Were they sexually assaulted? The alternative — a frenzy of bacchanalian cavorting with whoever takes our fancy — is exactly what monotheistic religion was invented to avoid. It's long been my theory that in secondary education single-sex schools are great for girls, for whom boys are a distraction, and terrible for boys who afterwards take years to reconcile themselves to women as friends and equals.
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